The longer one coaches, what you discover is that great coaching is full of counter intuitive aspects to what one would think they would be.
Most would think that to win games, one would have to be thinking about the end result, but no, one is better off thinking about the process they have to work to, for thinking about having to win makes one uptight, and takes them away from the relaxed state that one needs to be in to perform well.
The following are short clips from the You Tube Channel the competitive edge, and they are full of the counter intuitive aspects of coaching:
The Biggest Mental Mistakes Made By Coaches And Athletes
Playing Your Best When It Counts
Why Do I Perform Better In Practices Than In Games?
The Secret To Winning Coaching
The counter intuitive aspects flip the model of coaching, and when first working to the counter intuitive aspects of coaching can and does feel strange, though the more that one works to them the stronger one’s coaching does become
Coaching is full of counter intuitive aspects, find them and work them and watch one’s coaching take off