When we teach others, we always want to tell them everything, but as we’re starting to learn, it’s not really an efficient way of teaching, for if we tell people everything, they tend not to remember as much as they should, so maybe we should be asking questions instead. For what is one of the…
Humanity at the moment, and for a long, long time, is deliberately been engineered into one great big disconnect from who we really are. For as a species, the self-appointed authoritarians, or the powers that think they be are constantly trying to disconnect us from who we really are and from the sources we derive…
As one is looking around the internet and watching things on you tube and other such platforms, from time to time one comes across interesting documents, and though they aren’t well known in the wider public, the implications of them to day to day, they have an enormous effect. Some of these interesting documents were…
As one learns more and more and comes to a greater knowledge and understanding about the workings of our reality and the part that we play, as we learn more and more about how to apply what we learn, their almost becomes a merging with the fabric of creating itself. It’s not a physical merging,…
Recently I came across and have got into the work of the early 20th Century writer Florence Scovel Shinn and her seminal work the game of life and how to play it. And even though Florence Scovel Shinn was writing back at the turn of the last century, her writings are just as relevant and…
Over the last few entries, it’s been mentioned that the imagination is so important, why is this so? The imagination is so important, because with it, we literally create out reality and therefore the imagination is the most important tool that one can possess. And most don’t see the imagination as a creative tool, but…
The traditional model of a leader that is presented to us is one of someone in a perceived position of authority who can control people and also inspire them by what they do and say, though that has now become an outdated form of leadership, for a different model of being a true leader is…
As more and more people come to learn about and appreciate consciousness and how we’re all connected and how our thoughts and belief patterns effect our reality, the effect we have in creating our reality will begin to be better understood, in other words, we will be coaching consciousness for modern times. Consciousness Creates Reality…
It would be interesting to sit down and discuss which individual has had the most influence over the recent era of the last 200 odd years, though when you start looking into marketing, one name keeps coming to the fore, that of Edward Bernays. Edwards Bernays would be a name that not many people would…
Everyone who coaches wants to put together a successful team, haven’t met one yet who doesn’t. But putting together successful teams just doesn’t happen, there is a few things things that must be done and be understood which we’ll cover in the next few blogs, though a quick summary of what we’ll look at are:…
Everything that I write about sport, with a few tweaks here and there also applies to life and so it is with the recently completed poster entitled Coaching Package. http://beawinningcoach.com/documents/Coaching%20Package%20Poster.pdf With a couple of changes here and there it becomes The Life Code, so let’s have a look at it: Behaviours: Our life is driven…
When one begins looking at sport and coaching, what you find is that there are 6 main areas to really look at, yet in our coaching training we tend to only look at the skills, techniques and tactics and pretty much leave it at that. So what are these 6 areas? Needy People Information Field…
When one begins looking into consciousness and the nature of it, one invariably begins asking questions about it. The following are some questions that have sprung to mind out of the research and reading that I’ve been doing, and then some of the answers that are responses to those questions. First the questions: What is…
If wanting to head down the path of dominating the opposition by the way that the team plays there are two simple steps that one must take, though most find difficult to do. For remember there are only two aspects to playing sport, one can either be: Compete with opposition Or Dominate the competition The…
Have came across this great talk by Carol Dweck, the professor who came up with the concept of the growth mindset. http://www.ted.com/talks/carol_dweck_the_power_of_believing_that_you_can_improve And in it she talks about one of the most powerful words that one can say to someone who is in the learning process. And that amazing word is the word: Yet It…
If wanting to reach the top, one thing that must be done is to respect what you do. Because how many talented players do you constantly see fall by the way side and it always becomes a case of unfulfilled promise and they wonder where it all went wrong. Behind the down fall will be…
Recently I’ve used the visual image of a stagnant pond to visualise what happens when one stops learning. In reality we have a lot of control over whether our personal pond becomes stagnant or not for at the head of each pond is a sluice gate which can be used to control the flow of…
When looking at how people develop and grow and come together as teams, a couple of interesting concepts begin to emerge. The two concepts being: Create an environment where people are allowed to safely express their vulnerabilities Have exercises and drills and for them to work and be completed successfully, people are required to help…
The basis of fulfilling the psychological need of safety in people is in reducing or eliminating their fears. Once that is done, the comfort grows and the progress begins. Exposing people’s lack of knowledge and education is one of the biggest fears of all and unfortunately, this forms the basis of all coaching. Reduce the…
The most important part of coaching is how one believes the game can be played, because from this one decision, everything does stem. For having no belief or idea about how the game can be played, one becomes reliant on others, though the interesting thing is, when talking to others; everyone has an idea, a…
