Probably one of the hardest things for most to come to grips with is that the fiat money system is one of the biggest scams and con jobs implemented upon humanity, because the money that is in the fiat money system, doesn’t actually exist, it is merely an idea that is built into people’s psyche…
The interesting thing about most needy people, especially when it comes to the sports world, is that they never quite fulfil their potential, there is always this continuous potential about them, that if you just hang in there long enough with them, they’ll get there. But as always, the Needy People never fulfil that promised…
Coaching essentially comes down to a simple solution. That simple solution is this: Keep Needy People in check or at bay to allow excellence to grow
I now come back to the point I diverted off nutrition to explore and understand the world of needy people. In coming to understand needy people and what they’re all about, I’ve discovered a missing piece from the coaching puzzle and I hope with my writings I have helped others come to an understanding about them…
Having now looked at Needy People it is easy to see how they destroy and wreck so many teams and why they become insidious and subversive with their ways of garnishing negative attention. Because if their neediness was out in the open, others would stop supplying them with the negative attention they require to keep…
The following is an example of what Learners & Improvers have in their mind with their approach to sport and which needy people would be reluctant to commit to even when written down on paper. I _______________________ Having been picked and or decided to play for __________________ Hereby commit myself to: The Team Learning about…
It’s time to reclaim sport back from the needy people because we have been playing by their rules for way to long and they’ve been spoiling it for everyone else and turning people away from sport in general. Because needy peoples rules for sport are these: Be Selfish Be Disruptive Destroy Teams Lack of effort…
The majority of needy behaviour gets missed and therefore it becomes insidious and subversive. And if one looks at behaviour as a way of gaining attention, one begins seeing needy behaviour for what it is and all over the place and becomes much easier to spot. And one can not ignore needy behaviour because it…
When dealing with needy behaviour it helps to begin to know what to look for. And the best way to describe needy behaviour is like this: Needy behaviour is a cluster of actions or repeating pattern that garnishes negative attention One action on its own doesn’t necessitate that someone is a needy person, but if…
If one has many needy people in their team, I can guarantee that no coaching will be done. And because dealing with needy people is difficult and a time consuming one, by necessity, one becomes a juggler. And because needy people is currently a subject that’s hidden, one becomes like a juggler in the dark…
A Hallmark is something that distinguishes something from something else. For example, manmade silver objects have stamps on them which are called hallmarks and by knowing the code and reading them you can tell what year they were made and by whom. And it’s the same with needy people because when you look at what…
As I’m talking to people about neediness in sport and the destruction that it causes, what I am find is that it beginning to strike a chord with people. The group of people who struggle with it are needy people, because all of a sudden their weapon of choice and their mode of operation is…
It doesn’t matter what you do to appease a needy person they will always find something else to gain and maintain your attention. Because in whatever you do, nothing will be good enough and nothing will ever be right and they will always hold you to a higher standard and if you do reach those…
When one really gets down to it, what you’ll find is that neediness is an addiction. For what is an addiction? It is a destructive behaviour What is neediness? It is a destructive behaviour. Because if neediness wasn’t addictive it would be easy to give up, so therefore when we see someone conducting needy behaviour,…
When looking around the internet trying to find information about needy people, one common thing comes to the fore. That common theme is to avoid needy people. The sad reality is this, when coaching teams you’re always going to have people who are needy in your team and it’s not going to change. Just at…
The nickelodeon channel on TV is very interesting and there is a side to it that people haven’t thought about. When children are very small they watch the likes of Dora the Explorer, Blues Clues and Barney and they teach about cooperation and helping each other. Dora the Explorer https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LVCqbgntNQ8 Blues Clues http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=opoVXRgpoCw Barney http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8m3PCZft-tg…
With the rise in the amount of needy people there are two areas which have enhanced this aspect in people and people don’t realise that this has happened. The two great accelerators of neediness are: Marketers Political Correctness For marketers, in their bid to make more money for any company, play to people’s selfish needs…
When working and dealing with people, there are two things which everyone absolutely believes and one thing that everyone does. The three things are these: Everyone thinks they are right Everyone does not think they are needy Everyone adds their own spin to what’s been said And all three create problems for anyone who coaches….
With all the needy people in the world, and at the moment there is more than there should be, there is a sad reality with coaching at the moment. And the sad reality is this: Until one can deal with needy people, a coaching career with any team is very short
Ages ago I posed a question, what if my players do not want to learn? The answer I came up was they will be working from the aspects of a failing mind. This is true, though a much simpler answer which more will understand is this. Q: What if my players do not want to…
