Idiots, Dickheads, Ultra-Needy – it doesn’t matter what you call them, they all use not normal behaviour.
And there are 3 key traits which give them away, and they use these 3 traits because they think that is the way to behave and also to disarm people and get them to lower their defences.
And these 3 unnatural behaviours are:
Glibness – They come across as being your best friend, they’re the greatest thing since slice bread and they happen to like all the same things that you do and agree with everything that you say.
Superficial – They have all the trinkets and gadgets and tend to have all the latest, biggest and greatest things.
Intensity – They’re not relaxed and can’t relax, they always have to be on the go.
The thing to be careful about is just because someone is displaying any of the above 3 behaviours and traits will not make them an ultra-needy person, but the more of these traits they have or display, the greater the chances they will be.
And all three traits should act as red flags for if they are being displayed; chances are they will have ultra-needy tendencies.
Glibness, Superficial and Intensity – The hallmarks of the ultra-needy